Display happy pictures of you and your loved one laughing, smiling, hugging, and kissing. Frame the pictures that conjure up the best of memories, including any professional wedding pictures.
Save the happy family photos to be showed elsewhere around the gathering spaces of your home, like the living room or kitchen. Keeping family photos out of the main bedroom and putting any stray photos into albums will minimize struggles with family fall-outs and help to maintain healthy boundaries with relatives and within your own romantic relation.
It’s just those…good vibrations.
…and I don’t mean you’re cell phone vibrating constantly updating your inbox. Empty old messages everywhere you can think of…you’re text message log, voicemails, email accounts, etc. Letting messages accumulate can make it difficult to get your wants and needs across. Erasing old messages will keep the means of communication clear, thus inducing clear communication between you & your spouse, minimizing misunderstandings in dialogue and feelings of being unappreciated.
Accessorize candlesticks, lamps, picture frames, etc. in pairs anywhere in the home, especially the bedroom, to amplify that two-of-a-kind energy you’re going for. Always keep in mind that being selective with colors,photographs, and other subtle details add to the aura of keeping it a sacred place for two.
Every other room and detail in the house can create a more relaxing home for your relationship to stay happy & healthy…
The Living Room
Think…Inviting. Position the sofa back up against the wall to face the main entry to enhance feelings of security. Create symmetrical arrangements between pairs of seats and sofas to invite connection and positive energy.
The Bathroom
This is the “self-care” room in the house. Splurge on a new shower curtain, towels, and bath mats: the more sparkling clean it is, the more you will find time for the things and people that bring you the most joy…including the holder of your heart, your spouse.
The Kitchen
…The health & wellness sector. Clear out cabinets, cupboards, the pantry, refrigerator & freezers. Purging and detoxing your kitchen will purge unwanted, stagnant energy out of you, creating an overall sense of well-being for you and your loved one.
Feng Shui for Two…and YOU.
All of these Feng Shui tips are designed to bring renewed energy to the areas of your life that will positively impact your romance, as well as many other relationships including the most important one…the one you have with yourself.
This article brought to you by Aleana’s Bridal Shop. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleana’s Bridal Shop in NJ or call 201-444-1500.
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Now that you both have moved into your own space, it’s time to clear out the clutter and make way for a brand new season of growth, while keeping the warmth and love alive. Your first home together, whether it be an apartment, condo, or house…should support your marriage energetically.
A Balanced Bedroom for Two…Feng Shui for Love
Lets start with your master bedroom, which is the most important room in the house designed to keep the energies aligned rightfully for your relationship.You do spend every night together in the same bed…so it’s no wonder the bedroom carries the most energy towards your love life.
The bed itself plays an important role…so think of how you want it to look and what you wish for it to portray. First & foremost, invest in new bedding when moving into your first home together with your significant other. This includes a whole new bed, comforter, sheets, pillows, etc. The energies of other people who’ve slept in your old bed still lingers there…can we say “relationship residue”?!? …and from a feng shui point of view, you wouldn’t want any ghosts haunting you both in your sleep, now would you?
The back of the bed should be set up against a solid wall, not a window, to face the door. Circular or oval styled mattresses are best for promoting romantic chi. If you choose not to purchase a mattress with this soft-edged shape, you can do the same for pillow and chairs instead. Stick to color tones of brown, pink, & peach for a touch of softness. For a little extra spice, add some fiery reds into the mix if you wish.
What goes onon top of the bed is privately & intimately your business…but what about under the bed? If you’d like a happier, healthier love life, get down on the floor & take a look underneath. Clearing this space out beneath your bed will be just the ticket you need to maintaining and/or improving romance. Relocate any items you use regularly, then discard or donate the rest. By keeping the space beneath your bed totally clear, you’ll resolve any deceptions, hidden resentments and childhood traumas that have affected your romantic relationships.
Now, what about next to the bed? This is where you will most likely find nightstands and tables with lamps placed on top. If you do have these types of pieces, make sure they are equality placed on both sides of the bed by using the same furniture and decorated accents on its’ surface. Equality equals balance! And the more soft the lighting, the sexier your space will be.
KEEP OUT!
The only photos that should make their appearance into the bedroom are snapshots of you & your spouse, only! Like the “Keep Out” sign swinging on the door-knob, apply the same rule for family/friend photos to “keep out” the negative energy & experiences of others from affecting your relationship and/or marriage. This is about the two of you…and your relationship together…nobody else included. Unwelcomed, uninvited, third-wheel and butt-ing in your relationship business? Keep those energies away, please!
Read more Part 2
This article brought to you by www.aleanasbridal.com. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleanasbridal.com or call at 201-444-1500.
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Gown issues: Make sure it comes in on time by not procrastinating in the first place. Your gown should be the first thing handled during your bridal journey. What if it doesn’t fit you? – Make sure your not fluctuating weight by staying on a balanced diet/exercise regimen.
Fires and Flies: Beware of candles…and stay away from those “bar flies” – those intoxicated guests who keep enthusiastically hitting the bar and then making their way over to hug you with their glass in hand- to avoid alcohol spills on your precious gown!
Wah Wah Wahhh…Babies crying: People bringing their children to the ceremony, when you sent out invitations instructing guests’ “NO CHILDREN ALLOWED!!! Can we say…annoying?!? Make sure everybody understands your sincerity with this wish by clearly stating in conversation your “rule” with those you know who have children before the big day arrives.
Extra guests…with no seating. There may be some stragglers and wedding crashers, so make sure there are extra chairs at the venue just incase these unruly scavengers come and crash!
Rainstorm. Of course the weather being bad could be quite devastating, especially if you have an out-door ceremony…but have arrangements made so that the ceremony could easily be brought in-doors. If you have the reception outdoors, just have an area or patio covered by a tent…and hope that everybody could fit into this spot! And if the weather really gets out of hand? Please avoid mud by all costs! (My bridal beg to you!)
Out-of-line Speeches: The maid of honor and best man may just have had a little too much to drink…and now they confidently take the mic., and deliver a very inappropriate…and embarrassing speech. All you can do in this case is make sure they know beforehand that you will not tolerate nothing but a classy and respectful speech, and that they will suffer the consequences if they fail to deliver this promise. Deal? Deal! Make this agreement. And promise one another that they will limit their drinking till after they give their speeches.
Worst Wedding Disaster?…
Being stood up at the alter cannot be argued to being anything else but the worst nightmare imaginable to any bride…and groom! Cold feet, no groom, and a run-a-way bride? Sounds like nothing else can top that!
This article brought to you by Aleana’s Bridal Shop. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleana’s Bridal Shop or call 201-444-1500.
A Couple’s First Home Feng Shui (Part 2)
/in Articles /by Svetlana ZakharinaRead Part 1 first
Feng Shui Photo Tips
Display happy pictures of you and your loved one laughing, smiling, hugging, and kissing. Frame the pictures that conjure up the best of memories, including any professional wedding pictures.
Save the happy family photos to be showed elsewhere around the gathering spaces of your home, like the living room or kitchen. Keeping family photos out of the main bedroom and putting any stray photos into albums will minimize struggles with family fall-outs and help to maintain healthy boundaries with relatives and within your own romantic relation.
It’s just those…good vibrations.
…and I don’t mean you’re cell phone vibrating constantly updating your inbox. Empty old messages everywhere you can think of…you’re text message log, voicemails, email accounts, etc. Letting messages accumulate can make it difficult to get your wants and needs across. Erasing old messages will keep the means of communication clear, thus inducing clear communication between you & your spouse, minimizing misunderstandings in dialogue and feelings of being unappreciated.
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Accessorize candlesticks, lamps, picture frames, etc. in pairs anywhere in the home, especially the bedroom, to amplify that two-of-a-kind energy you’re going for. Always keep in mind that being selective with colors, photographs, and other subtle details add to the aura of keeping it a sacred place for two.
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Every other room and detail in the house can create a more relaxing home for your relationship to stay happy & healthy…
The Living Room
Think…Inviting. Position the sofa back up against the wall to face the main entry to enhance feelings of security. Create symmetrical arrangements between pairs of seats and sofas to invite connection and positive energy.
The Bathroom
This is the “self-care” room in the house. Splurge on a new shower curtain, towels, and bath mats: the more sparkling clean it is, the more you will find time for the things and people that bring you the most joy…including the holder of your heart, your spouse.
The Kitchen
…The health & wellness sector. Clear out cabinets, cupboards, the pantry, refrigerator & freezers. Purging and detoxing your kitchen will purge unwanted, stagnant energy out of you, creating an overall sense of well-being for you and your loved one.
Feng Shui for Two…and YOU.
All of these Feng Shui tips are designed to bring renewed energy to the areas of your life that will positively impact your romance, as well as many other relationships including the most important one…the one you have with yourself.
This article brought to you by Aleana’s Bridal Shop. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleana’s Bridal Shop in NJ or call 201-444-1500.
A Couple’s First Home Feng Shui (Part 1)
/in Articles /by Svetlana ZakharinaNow that you both have moved into your own space, it’s time to clear out the clutter and make way for a brand new season of growth, while keeping the warmth and love alive. Your first home together, whether it be an apartment, condo, or house…should support your marriage energetically.
A Balanced Bedroom for Two…Feng Shui for Love
Lets start with your master bedroom, which is the most important room in the house designed to keep the energies aligned rightfully for your relationship. You do spend every night together in the same bed…so it’s no wonder the bedroom carries the most energy towards your love life.
The bed itself plays an important role…so think of how you want it to look and what you wish for it to portray. First & foremost, invest in new bedding when moving into your first home together with your significant other. This includes a whole new bed, comforter, sheets, pillows, etc. The energies of other people who’ve slept in your old bed still lingers there…can we say “relationship residue”?!? …and from a feng shui point of view, you wouldn’t want any ghosts haunting you both in your sleep, now would you?
The back of the bed should be set up against a solid wall, not a window, to face the door. Circular or oval styled mattresses are best for promoting romantic chi. If you choose not to purchase a mattress with this soft-edged shape, you can do the same for pillow and chairs instead. Stick to color tones of brown, pink, & peach for a touch of softness. For a little extra spice, add some fiery reds into the mix if you wish.
What goes on on top of the bed is privately & intimately your business…but what about under the bed? If you’d like a happier, healthier love life, get down on the floor & take a look underneath. Clearing this space out beneath your bed will be just the ticket you need to maintaining and/or improving romance. Relocate any items you use regularly, then discard or donate the rest. By keeping the space beneath your bed totally clear, you’ll resolve any deceptions, hidden resentments and childhood traumas that have affected your romantic relationships.
Now, what about next to the bed? This is where you will most likely find nightstands and tables with lamps placed on top. If you do have these types of pieces, make sure they are equality placed on both sides of the bed by using the same furniture and decorated accents on its’ surface. Equality equals balance! And the more soft the lighting, the sexier your space will be.
KEEP OUT!
The only photos that should make their appearance into the bedroom are snapshots of you & your spouse, only! Like the “Keep Out” sign swinging on the door-knob, apply the same rule for family/friend photos to “keep out” the negative energy & experiences of others from affecting your relationship and/or marriage. This is about the two of you…and your relationship together…nobody else included. Unwelcomed, uninvited, third-wheel and butt-ing in your relationship business? Keep those energies away, please!
Read more Part 2
This article brought to you by www.aleanasbridal.com. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleanasbridal.com or call at 201-444-1500.
Possible wedding disasters (part 3)
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Watch out for…
Gown issues: Make sure it comes in on time by not procrastinating in the first place. Your gown should be the first thing handled during your bridal journey. What if it doesn’t fit you? – Make sure your not fluctuating weight by staying on a balanced diet/exercise regimen.
Fires and Flies: Beware of candles…and stay away from those “bar flies” – those intoxicated guests who keep enthusiastically hitting the bar and then making their way over to hug you with their glass in hand- to avoid alcohol spills on your precious gown!
Wah Wah Wahhh…Babies crying: People bringing their children to the ceremony, when you sent out invitations instructing guests’ “NO CHILDREN ALLOWED!!! Can we say…annoying?!? Make sure everybody understands your sincerity with this wish by clearly stating in conversation your “rule” with those you know who have children before the big day arrives.
Extra guests…with no seating. There may be some stragglers and wedding crashers, so make sure there are extra chairs at the venue just incase these unruly scavengers come and crash!
Rainstorm. Of course the weather being bad could be quite devastating, especially if you have an out-door ceremony…but have arrangements made so that the ceremony could easily be brought in-doors. If you have the reception outdoors, just have an area or patio covered by a tent…and hope that everybody could fit into this spot! And if the weather really gets out of hand? Please avoid mud by all costs! (My bridal beg to you!)
Out-of-line Speeches: The maid of honor and best man may just have had a little too much to drink…and now they confidently take the mic., and deliver a very inappropriate…and embarrassing speech. All you can do in this case is make sure they know beforehand that you will not tolerate nothing but a classy and respectful speech, and that they will suffer the consequences if they fail to deliver this promise. Deal? Deal! Make this agreement. And promise one another that they will limit their drinking till after they give their speeches.
Worst Wedding Disaster?…
Being stood up at the alter cannot be argued to being anything else but the worst nightmare imaginable to any bride…and groom! Cold feet, no groom, and a run-a-way bride? Sounds like nothing else can top that!
This article brought to you by Aleana’s Bridal Shop. A bridal shop located in Paramus, NJ. Please schedule your first appointment at Aleana’s Bridal Shop or call 201-444-1500.